OddBot marries the beautiful Li Si Ling

It seems in China you must travel to the brides birth city (or a city nearby her birthplace where they keep the documents) to be officially married. 3pm Sunday afternoon we were on our way!

We had to travel 5 hours by bus from ZhongShan to XingNing to get my step sons passport. The bus had beds for the long trip which was great for small Chinese and children. Not so good for a 135Kg Aussie!

To fit 60 bunks in a normal sized bus requires 30 double bunks in 3 rows. The beds and the isles were all about 50cm (20 inch) wide. My shoulders are a lot wider than that. The length of the beds was from my head to my knees.

So I spent 5 hours lying on the floor at the back of the bus where the floor was raised enough to be level with the bottom bunks. Bumpy roads and almost no suspension made sleep impossible. We arrived at the hotel in XingNing about 8:30pm. Had a feed and an early night.

Monday I got to lounge about in a comfortable hotel room while Li Si applied for Shi Sen's passport. Then we meet her Uncle and Aunt for lunch and did a little shopping for home made plum wine to finish up the day. The Chinese plum wine is sweet, fruity and reasonably strong. Great for cool weather!

Tuesday morning we got a private car to drive us to nearby MaiZhou to be married. We went to the magistrate office but (as I knew they would) they wanted my official, notorized single status certificate translated. Off we went to another office who accepted our documents but it was almost lunch an Chinese government officials need their sleep. We had to wait 3 hours while they had lunch and a midday snooze.

But eventually all the documents were translated, filled out, signed etc. We were officially married at 4:32pm (GMT+8). Next month when we have more money we will have a typical reception party with all the friends and family.

The Chinese tradition seems to be that the bride and groom pay for the party but then all the guest give them red envelopes full of money rather than wedding presents. In theory we should make a profit. The Chinese remind me of Ferengi in many ways.

Oh well, this should make my next Visa application interesting as now I am entitled to a family visa.


In response to ChuckCrunches "live long and prosper". Li Si attempts to get her fingers to co-operate.

Fri - 23 - 2011

We finally got around to doing wedding photos. Unlike Western countries, Chinese weddings tend to be done in installments. The photos belows were taken a few days ago. Starting with a close up of my beautiful wife.

This photo was taken on the coast of ZhuHai

The photo below is from an old fortress that had been re-vamped. The round shape allowed for a better view of the enemy. Now it is a restaurant where we had lunch.



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I am sorry that I did not see this earlier, OddBot - A late congratiolations from me as well :)

Even though we are technically married under Chinese law we have not had the ceremony with the photos and cake yet. That will happen in December.

Glad to hear I am not too late for the cake!

Happy days Oddbot. And many of them! Am pleased to know you found what you were looking for.

Thanks Rik, You're never too late.

If you ever want to visit China I have a spare room with a double bed. The rent and food is free, the beer is cheap.

Congrats!!!! I wish You two happiness and love! :D

...well...all the best for you and your new family. Oh yeah, to marry in China is a little adventure and a fight with a lot of documents ;-) 


Hoho, 20 liters of plum wine...i can halp you with that...yummy...but always get a headache next day...

My congratulations  Russell and all the best to both of you! Glad that you finaly got married to that beautiful woman of yours.  I was laughing when you've mentionned about those busses.   My son is in China on vacation as I mentionned to you earlier, and he told me about the beds and everything on the bus...he's 6'1" haha. Take good care of her and keep the house clean :P


Congratulations and all the best!



Congratulations ... I wish you two all the best... Happy and Fruitful life.